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Women Push Back on ‘Mankeeping’ as Emotional Strain Grows

Experts say the trend highlights a male loneliness epidemic, urging men to forge stronger bonds with peers to ease pressure on partners.

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Overview

  • The term ‘mankeeping,’ coined by Stanford’s Angelica Puzio Ferrara, describes the disproportionate emotional and social labor women undertake for their male partners.
  • Women are increasingly speaking out about feeling drained by acting as their partners’ unofficial therapists and social directors.
  • Some men report making efforts to share emotional responsibilities by strengthening friendships with other men and supporting their partners more evenly.
  • Psychologists highlight that no single person can meet all emotional needs and underscore men’s need for vulnerability and diverse peer connections.
  • Despite heated media claims that mankeeping has undermined dating and fueled celibacy, experts stress the term’s value in highlighting imbalances in emotional labor.