The Complexities and Nuances of Setting Boundaries in Relationships
- Jonah Hill was accused of using therapy language like "boundaries" to control his ex-partner's behavior.
- Experts caution against using therapy terms to blame others rather than communicate needs.
- Boundaries should aim to protect oneself while connecting with a partner, not controlling or disconnecting.
- It's important to collaboratively set boundaries focused on purpose, fairness, and partner impact.
- Misuse of therapy terms like "gaslighting" is common; it's more effective to directly describe behaviors and emotions.