Overview

• Fry and Spencer met at a 2012 house party and married in January 2015, marking ten years of marriage earlier this year.
• The actor identified cheerfulness as the often-overlooked virtue that transforms their relationship beyond kindness.
• Spencer has broadened Fry’s tastes by introducing him to Kendrick Lamar’s music and WWE, prompting Fry to buy tickets for WrestleMania.
• Fry reflected on a self-imposed 15-year celibacy during the AIDS crisis and how those experiences shaped his approach to intimacy.
• The couple adapts to contrasting energy levels—such as Fry’s morning exuberance—to maintain harmony in daily life.