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Rachael Kirkconnell Says She Hasn’t Had Sex in Over Three Years, Considers Herself Demisexual

Her disclosures came on the Oct. 16 Extra Dirty podcast following her January split from Matt James.

Overview

  • Kirkconnell clarified the timeline in a TikTok comment, replying that it has been “over 3” years since she was last sexually active.
  • On Extra Dirty, she said she “feels like a virgin again” and wants future intimacy to follow a meaningful connection rather than casual encounters.
  • After the host read the definition of demisexuality, she said “I think that’s me,” emphasizing attraction that develops only with an emotional bond.
  • She described herself as “chronically single” since the breakup, said she has not been on a date, and noted she is not using dating apps.
  • She referenced the couple’s January separation that James announced in an Instagram prayer post, and she has said he posted it three hours after ending the relationship during a trip to Tokyo.