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Mothers Shoulder 71% of Family Mental Workload, Experts Advise Partners on How to Help

Experts emphasize that regular check-ins can help reduce mothers' workload

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Overview

  • A December study in the Journal of Marriage and Family found mothers handle 71% of planning, organizing and scheduling for their families.
  • Board-certified psychiatrist Dr. Sue Varma warns that this imbalance triggers persistent anxiety, sleep disturbances and increased irritability among mothers.
  • Research indicates fathers typically manage episodic chores like finances and yard work, whereas mothers oversee core daily tasks central to family well-being.
  • Specialists recommend that partners acknowledge the invisible burden by proactively assuming specific household responsibilities without waiting to be asked.
  • Experts advise mothers to communicate their needs clearly and engage in regular check-ins to foster shared decision-making and mutual support.