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Mother of Taylor Swift’s Late Friend Says ‘Ruin the Friendship’ Likely Refers to Her Son

Her remarks have revived fan discussion, with no confirmation from Swift.

Overview

  • Susan Lang told The Tennessean she believes the Life of a Showgirl track references her son Jeff, adding she is grateful Swift has not forgotten him.
  • The song describes regretting not kissing a high school friend who later died, citing Nashville-area details like Gallatin Road and a lakeside beach likely referring to Old Hickory Lake.
  • Lyrics include a call from Swift’s friend Abigail delivering the bad news and a graveside whisper of “Should’ve kissed you anyway.”
  • Swift has not said the song is specifically about Lang, though she performed at his 2010 funeral and thanked him in her BMI Country Awards speech that year.
  • Fans previously connected the 2021 vault track “Forever Winter (Taylor’s Version)” to Lang, establishing a pattern of speculation around Swift’s catalog.