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Miriam Toews’s New Memoir Explores Grief in Fragmentary Form

Critics describe A Truce That Is Not Peace as a formally inventive testimony to losses that shaped her writing.

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Writer Miriam Toews is photographed in her Toronto home on Mar 1, 2023. Ontario, (Fred Lum/The Globe and Mail) An adaptation of Toews’ novel Women Talking, has been nominated for three Academy Awards and is centred around women in a Mennonite community.
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Overview

  • A Truce That Is Not Peace is Toews’s second memoir, moving from earlier fictionalization to an unmasked account of living with intergenerational suicide.
  • The book adopts an associative structure with inserted letters, mid‑chapter epigraphs, curated lists and vivid images such as a dreamed shooting, a planned Wind Museum and a recurring “deranged skunk.”
  • Prompted by a request to explain why she writes for a Mexico City event that later cancels her appearance, Toews uses the memoir itself as her answer.
  • Family history anchors the narrative, including her sister Marjorie’s 2010 suicide years after their father’s, extensive letters Toews wrote to Marjorie, and probing of silence versus speech.
  • Reviewers from BookPage and the Guardian praise the work’s dark humor, domestic immediacy and formal invention, concluding that bearing witness to grief can offer reprieve.