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Michelle Obama Details Preparing Her Daughters to Live Without Her at New York Book Event

She frames the message as an extension of Marian Robinson’s lessons on independence.

Overview

  • Speaking Nov. 5 at People Inc.’s New York City event, Obama discussed her new book The Look, which was released Nov. 4.
  • She told the audience she wants Malia and Sasha to know they do not need her because they already have the tools to succeed.
  • Obama recounted her late mother’s quiet parting words—“Wow, that was quick” followed by “Life”—which she says pushed her to be fully present.
  • Turning 60 has sharpened her focus on an intentional “last chapter,” including the idea that she may have “30 good summers” left.
  • Marian Robinson died in May 2024 at 86, a loss Obama says clarified her approach to parenting adult children and personal autonomy.