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Jeff Lang’s Mother Believes Taylor Swift’s ‘Ruin the Friendship’ Is About Her Son

Her comments cite lyric clues plus a 2010 awards speech, with no explicit confirmation from Swift.

Overview

  • Susan Lang told The Tennessean she believes the Life of a Showgirl track refers to her late son, Jeffrey (Jeff) Lang.
  • Susan described Jeff and Swift as close high school friends and said Swift often played him new songs first.
  • The song includes lines about losing touch after school, Abigail calling with “the bad news,” and a whispered regret at a grave.
  • Swift publicly mentioned Jeff in 2010, thanking him by name at the BMI Awards and noting she had sung at his funeral.
  • Swift has characterized the song as a nostalgic reflection on chances not taken in high school and has not identified Jeff as the subject.