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Japanese Retiree’s Sotsukon Decision Leads to Solitary Hardship

His wife’s thriving Tokyo workshop underscores the contrast with his lonely rural life.

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Overview

  • Following rising tensions over his proposal to leave Tokyo, Yamada and his wife adopted sotsukon, a practice keeping them married but living separately.
  • He used his pension to renovate a countryside home but soon struggled with basic household tasks and relied on instant noodles and frozen meals.
  • Yamada reports feeling lonely and regretful since the move and maintains limited contact with his wife and their sons.
  • Meanwhile, Keiko has opened a handmade workshop in Tokyo and is reportedly thriving alongside their two sons.
  • The viral account of their living apart arrangement has fueled public debate about retirement choices, evolving marriage norms and the practical impact of domestic skill gaps.