Overview
- Paul Thijssen murdered Lilie James in October 2023 after escalating patterns of coercive control, manipulation, and stalking during their short relationship.
- Experts testified that Thijssen's use of Snapchat and other digital tools to monitor James exemplifies technology-facilitated abuse and coercion.
- The inquest revealed that societal misinterpretations of controlling behaviors as care contributed to missed warning signs in the relationship.
- Thijssen's fragile sense of self and perceived loss of control, particularly after a 21st birthday party James attended, were identified as key triggers for his violent actions.
- The inquest is set to conclude with testimony from the eSafety Commissioner and statements from James' family, focusing on systemic issues surrounding gender-based violence.