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Indians Abroad Face Scrutiny Over Social Coldness and Status Bias

A viral Reddit user’s account of being dismissed at a New York coffee shop highlights how status and insecurity shape Indian diaspora interactions.

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A Reddit post sparked debate after an Indian man shared how a fellow Indian abroad treated him coldly until learning he was an angel investor.

Overview

  • A Reddit post by @Weary-Risk-8655 described smiling at a fellow Indian in a New York café only to be met with arrogance until shared investor connections emerged.
  • Major outlets including India Today, Hindustan Times and News18 have broadened coverage to include diverse online reactions and expert analyses of diaspora behavior.
  • Many comments linked the cold reception to ego and insecurity, suggesting wealth or connections often dictate friendliness among Indians abroad.
  • Others pointed out that friendliness can carry expectations of favors, reflecting transactional social norms within the community.
  • Some diaspora members defended unconditional warmth toward fellow Indians and cautioned against perpetuating harmful stereotypes.