Husband Faces Ultimatum Over Open Marriage Proposal

A man seeks advice after his wife demands an open marriage, threatening infidelity if he does not comply.

A 35-year-old man is conflicted after his wife demands an open marriage, threatening to cheat if he refuses.
The couple, who raised their niece together, have agreed not to have children and are enjoying their careers and active lifestyles.
The wife's sudden demand has left the husband feeling trapped and unsure of how to proceed.
Advice columnist Amy Dickinson suggests the wife may already be cheating and advises the husband to consult a lawyer.
In a separate but related query, a 50-something woman expresses a strong desire to live alone for an extended period, highlighting a need for personal space and independence.