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German Cancer Survivor’s US Migration Marred by Partner’s Relapse and Violence

Her path to independence hinges on self-help initiatives complemented by a regular pub singing residency.

Goodbye Deutschland!

Overview

  • Myriam von M. invested €15,000 in a K-1 artist visa to move with her 14-year-old son from Germany to Colfax, California, to join partner Bradley Nedderhoed.
  • Shortly after arrival, Nedderhoed relapsed into alcoholism and became physically violent, prompting Myriam to call for his rehabilitation.
  • Facing financial dependence on her partner, Myriam gave him an ultimatum to seek therapy or see their relationship end.
  • She has attended a self-help group for relatives of alcoholics and worked as a cleaner and via social media to build financial autonomy.
  • A local pub has offered Myriam regular singing performances, providing a crucial new opportunity as she rebuilds her life.