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Expressing Love Boosts Feelings of Being Loved

Frequent smartphone prompts reveal a three-hour surge in felt love after giving love, pointing to new interventions to boost well-being.

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The researchers say that making people aware they are cared for is a skill that can be developed

Overview

  • Researchers tracked 52 adults over four weeks with six daily ecological momentary assessment prompts to record their expressions of love and feelings of being loved on a 0–100 scale.
  • Analysis uncovered an asymmetrical dynamic in which expressing love increased subsequent feelings of being loved, with the strongest effect emerging about three hours later.
  • Feelings of being loved showed greater persistence over time than expressions of love and correlated with higher self-reported flourishing and overall psychological well-being.
  • Authors suggest that love can be developed as a learnable skill through regular practice and heightened awareness, offering a potential tool to combat loneliness.
  • Experts caution that the study’s small, predominantly white and female sample and its observational design limit generalizability and underscore the need for broader, more diverse research.