Overview

• Banksying describes a drawn-out breakup method where one partner gradually shortens messages, postpones meetings and gives evasive answers without outright cutting ties
• The trend borrows its name from street artist Banksy’s surprise installations that appear and vanish without warning to mirror the tactic’s stealthy nature
• Relationship experts contend that banksying inflicts deeper confusion than ghosting by prolonging emotional limbo and denying partners the chance for closure
• Digital communication tools and dating apps have facilitated banksying by enabling disengagement to be stretched out over weeks or months without direct conversation
• To counter banksying, experts recommend seeking clear answers, setting communication boundaries or ending contact if evasive behavior persists