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Experts Advise Parents on Age-Appropriate Body-Safety Conversations Following Childcare Abuse Allegations

The guidelines focus on using precise body-safety language to help children assert boundaries with calm, supportive parental responses to any concerns.

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Overview

  • Parents are advised to teach children proper anatomical names—penis, vulva, vagina, anus—to give them clear language for reporting inappropriate contact.
  • Children should know they can refuse any unwanted touch, even from trusted adults, and that their refusal will always be respected.
  • Explaining the difference between secrets and surprises helps children understand they can report concerning information without fear of punishment.
  • Caregivers should respond calmly to disclosures by believing the child, avoiding detailed questioning, and seeking professional support when necessary.
  • Families can access national helplines in Australia, the UK and the US, including Kids Helpline, Bravehearts, NSPCC and Childhelp, for further assistance.