Overview
- Parents are advised to teach children proper anatomical names—penis, vulva, vagina, anus—to give them clear language for reporting inappropriate contact.
- Children should know they can refuse any unwanted touch, even from trusted adults, and that their refusal will always be respected.
- Explaining the difference between secrets and surprises helps children understand they can report concerning information without fear of punishment.
- Caregivers should respond calmly to disclosures by believing the child, avoiding detailed questioning, and seeking professional support when necessary.
- Families can access national helplines in Australia, the UK and the US, including Kids Helpline, Bravehearts, NSPCC and Childhelp, for further assistance.