Decorated Veteran and Firefighter Comes Out as Gay in Obituary

Col. Edward Thomas Ryan, a Vietnam War veteran from New York, reveals his lifelong secret in a heartfelt final message.

Ryan lived 85 years in secrecy, fearing ostracism from family, friends, and colleagues.
He shared a 25-year relationship with Paul Cavagnaro, who passed away in 1994.
Ryan's obituary was published during Pride Month, adding significance to his revelation.
His military service earned him numerous honors, including the National Defense Service Medal.
Ryan's body was donated to science, with plans for cremation and burial alongside Cavagnaro.