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Custody Case Shows Apple’s Family Sharing Locks Children to One Organizer

Vendors provide no clear way to honor custody orders, forcing a choice between staying under control or sacrificing years of data.

Overview

  • WIRED detailed how a custodial mother said her ex, as the designated organizer, used Family Sharing to track the children, enforce Screen Time limits, and relax them on his own days.
  • Apple support told her they could not move the minors to a new family group without the organizer’s consent, and Apple declined substantive comment beyond pointing to support documents.
  • Under Apple’s rules, children under 13 must belong to a family group and cannot leave on their own, and Screen Time locks can also prevent older children from exiting.
  • The common workaround is to create new Apple IDs, which permanently discards purchased apps and years of photos, videos, messages, and other digital history.
  • Google and Microsoft described vague escalation or documentation paths, while experts urged dual-organizer roles, custody-order overrides, audit logs, lossless child transfers, and specialist support, with no company announcing concrete fixes.