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Collien Fernandes Shares No-Filter Online Dating Approach on Raya

In a new interview, she frames post‑marriage dating through candid self‑presentation, firm values and safety priorities.

Overview

  • The 44-year-old says she prefers dating apps—especially Raya—because profiles signal that users are actively looking.
  • She uploaded an unretouched photo showing a facial rash linked to her allergies to set honest expectations.
  • She seeks a committed partner rather than casual encounters and filters out men over 1.95 m, gym-focused self-presenters and status posers.
  • She lists political and values red lines, including profiles that claim to be apolitical, Trump supporters, and men expecting a “tradwife” role.
  • Fame brings heavy inbound attention on apps—up to about 300 messages daily—which she describes as overwhelming, and she stresses verified profiles and sharing dates with friends for safety.