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China’s ‘Man Mum’ Trend Grows as Women Pay for Five-Minute Stress-Relief Hugs

Young women use chat apps to arrange brief, paid embraces with patient, vetted men in public settings for emotional comfort after busy days.

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Who Are 'Man Mums'

Overview

  • Sessions cost between 20 and 50 yuan (Rs250 to Rs600) for a five-minute hug and are booked through chat apps.
  • The phrase 'man mum' originally described muscular gym-goers but now refers to men combining physical strength with gentleness and patience.
  • Most meetings take place in public spaces such as subway stations, malls or underground platforms to ensure a comfortable and transparent setting.
  • Clients report that the brief, paid embraces ease anxiety, foster a sense of safety and allow them to vent frustrations.
  • Men who offer the service say charging a fee helps maintain professional boundaries and gives them a sense of purpose and self-worth.