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Bumble Drops Women-First Messaging Rule

Tests and user surveys showed allowing either match to send one opener, with a 72-hour reply window, increases mutual chats, cuts expirations, and reflects pressure to revive engagement.

Overview

  • Bumble announced the change on Tuesday and has rolled the new messaging flow into the live app so anyone in a match can send the single initial message.
  • Under the redesign the chat only opens after the first message is replied to, recipients have 72 hours to respond instead of 24, and users who try low-effort openers are prompted to improve them.
  • The company cited internal surveys showing about 66% of women prefer men to send the first message and A/B tests that it says produced higher mutual-chat rates and fewer expired matches.
  • Coverage notes user reaction is mixed, with some people relieved by the flexibility and others worried the move weakens Bumble’s original women-first identity and could raise safety perceptions.
  • The change completes a years-long shift that began with 2024’s ‘Opening Moves’ feature and comes as the company faces falling paying users and seeks to boost engagement against stronger rivals.