Overview

• A Perth mother’s viral TikTok shows her bringing a bag of rags, tea towels, dishwashing detergent and cling film as a birthday present.
• She explains the supplies spare hosts from clutter and reduce landfill waste by tackling sticky messes and leftover food.
• Critics on social media labeled the gesture rude and offensive, arguing it implies the host’s home is dirty and neglects the child’s celebration.
• Supporters praised the act of service as a meaningful gift for overwhelmed parents who value help over toys.
• Etiquette expert Jo Hayes said the idea can be thoughtful when paired with a child-oriented card or small toy to honour the birthday guest.