Overview

• A newlywed couple adhered to their minister's instructions to exclude 'plus-ones' from their wedding rehearsal, leading to a dispute with the bride's sister.
• The sister, a bridesmaid, felt insulted when her long-time boyfriend was not allowed to attend the rehearsal, despite being invited to the rehearsal dinner and wedding.
• The couple sought advice from Amy Dickinson, who affirmed their decision to follow the minister's guidelines was correct.
• In a separate query, a reader expressed frustration over being kept in the dark about a family member's financial windfall, questioning the secrecy within the family.
• Amy Dickinson advised that financial matters are private and encouraged open communication to address feelings of exclusion or secrecy.