Overview

• A host expresses concern over a friend's negative and bossy behavior at social events, seeking advice on how to address the issue.
• The friend in question has faced mobility challenges and values social gatherings, yet her behavior has caused discomfort among other guests.
• Advice columnist Annie Lane recommends having an honest conversation with the friend, highlighting the importance of expressing appreciation for her presence while addressing specific behaviors.
• Lane emphasizes the opportunity for the friend to share her perspective, potentially unaware of how her actions are perceived.
• The goal is to find a solution that respects both the friend's feelings and the comfort of other guests, fostering open communication and mutual understanding.